Holliday Blues
Everyone knows last holiday season was rough and this one will not be very different for Cousin Beth. Two years ago Beth, my cousin’s husband Jason was killed in Iraq fighting for our country. Beth and Jason had been married for seven years until this tragic event sprung on her and our family. Jason and three other proud American soldiers were killed in action when an IED (Improvised explosive devise) was detonated when they entered a house to make sure it was clear. Last year we all knew that Beth didn’t want to partake in any festivities, which is understandable since their anniversary was pretty close to everything. This year she has told us that she will be attending our family functions as they have done before because she believes that it is what he would want her to do. We all know that is will be hard for her to do and we will take in consideration her broken heart. She sent out a letter to all of our close family that will be attending saying that she does not want the holidays to be about her and her loved one, she wants all of our plans to be like the years past when he was with us. Beth has had a lot of help and reassuring letting her know that God has a plan for everything and he was taken from us for a reason. She now believes that it is ok because she knows that he was fighting for her and our country to keep us and our country safe. He always said that that is the way he would want to go out. Even though he would love to live a full and happy life with Beth he always said he would want to die serving for our country rather than sit back and do nothing. Beth knew this and understood that it would happen eventually.
Because this time of year will be hard on Beth and we will do our best to help her through these rough times. Our family has talked about our situation and has come to the conclusion that everything goes on as normal. We will do things as she wishes and not try to make it easy for her. We have come up with some things in remembrance of Jason that we think will help Beth. Even though she said she doesn’t want all of the attention to be on her we think this is a good idea. One of those ideas was to have everyone share their favorite moment of Jason. We think this will show how much we loved Jason and how much we will miss him. Some of these memories will purposely be humorous to lighten the mood and I know there will be lots of those because Jason was a person who liked to make everyone laugh. Let’s say he was the family jokester. One time for a birthday he made a joke cake, which was a balloon covered in icing and it looked like a cake, so when we went to cut the cake the knife punctured the balloon and shot icing all over everyone sitting at the table. He also had the real cake so not everything was a joke. We all think that this will also help Beth through this hard time and let her know that everyone is behind her.
We all know how hard this is for Beth and we are behind her every step of the way. This year is going to be a very happy and fun for everyone. I look forward to spending these great holidays with the friends and family that I love.
Everyone knows last holiday season was rough and this one will not be very different for Cousin Beth. Two years ago Beth, my cousin’s husband Jason was killed in Iraq fighting for our country. Beth and Jason had been married for seven years until this tragic event sprung on her and our family. Jason and three other proud American soldiers were killed in action when an IED (Improvised explosive devise) was detonated when they entered a house to make sure it was clear. Last year we all knew that Beth didn’t want to partake in any festivities, which is understandable since their anniversary was pretty close to everything. This year she has told us that she will be attending our family functions as they have done before because she believes that it is what he would want her to do. We all know that is will be hard for her to do and we will take in consideration her broken heart. She sent out a letter to all of our close family that will be attending saying that she does not want the holidays to be about her and her loved one, she wants all of our plans to be like the years past when he was with us. Beth has had a lot of help and reassuring letting her know that God has a plan for everything and he was taken from us for a reason. She now believes that it is ok because she knows that he was fighting for her and our country to keep us and our country safe. He always said that that is the way he would want to go out. Even though he would love to live a full and happy life with Beth he always said he would want to die serving for our country rather than sit back and do nothing. Beth knew this and understood that it would happen eventually.
Because this time of year will be hard on Beth and we will do our best to help her through these rough times. Our family has talked about our situation and has come to the conclusion that everything goes on as normal. We will do things as she wishes and not try to make it easy for her. We have come up with some things in remembrance of Jason that we think will help Beth. Even though she said she doesn’t want all of the attention to be on her we think this is a good idea. One of those ideas was to have everyone share their favorite moment of Jason. We think this will show how much we loved Jason and how much we will miss him. Some of these memories will purposely be humorous to lighten the mood and I know there will be lots of those because Jason was a person who liked to make everyone laugh. Let’s say he was the family jokester. One time for a birthday he made a joke cake, which was a balloon covered in icing and it looked like a cake, so when we went to cut the cake the knife punctured the balloon and shot icing all over everyone sitting at the table. He also had the real cake so not everything was a joke. We all think that this will also help Beth through this hard time and let her know that everyone is behind her.
We all know how hard this is for Beth and we are behind her every step of the way. This year is going to be a very happy and fun for everyone. I look forward to spending these great holidays with the friends and family that I love.
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